My brother-in-law's mother died early this morning. My brother-in-law and his father loved her, among others. That's all that matters.
Alex, the Congo African Grey that was the subject of Irene Pepperberg's research on bird intelligence, died on September 6. He was 31. See more at the
Alex Foundation, apparently they don't know why he died, though. The New York Times published a fantastic
photo of Alex (pops), taken by Mike Lovett of Brandeis University.
Number three, which may not count, is my laptop's hard drive, which "died" the evening of September 8th. The Lead Genius at the Apple store informed me of the bad news yesterday; I spent the next 24 hours deciding I couldn't justify the $700 to $1,500 or more for data recovery, and got the drive replaced this afternoon. I'm nowhere near set up, but enough to get going.
While I was very good about backing up my web sites (onto my laptop), I wasn't so good about backing up the laptop. There are photos I know I've lost, bookmarks, e-mail addresses, the master version of the Tumbly Finsters that serves as the "logo" of this site right now. Nothing crucial, though. At least, I don't think so. And I hope that what I don't remember, won't turn around and bite me in the ass at any point. Fingers crossed.
(And please, if you know an eight-year-old who is great at data recovery and likes getting paid in old Star Trek action figures,
don't tell me! It's too late now.)
I know I lost a few recent pictures of Harley, but I also have a few still on the camera, and I can always take more.
I found the big, original photo of this picture of Peanut, one of my favorites, which has me feeling much more comfortable about the loss of unknowns:

Look at that Tiny Tongue! I don't think I ever felt Peanut's tongue, it was so tiny. But Harley's tongue is
very soft. I had no idea that parrot's tongues were so soft.
Anyway, I realize a computer hard drive doesn't come close to the loss of a friend, but I'm really hoping it counts in the "rules of three," if such a thing exists for bad news. I'd like to be done with loss for now.
We lost well-known children's author Madeleine L'Engle last week, too. I read many of her books as a child and in my teens.